The Social Naatak!! Should I do it or not!!

I am furious!!

I am Depressed!!

But Why!!

Do not have a place to throw all my gyaan / frustration by controlling the reach. It will just go up the charts. Whatever I do today would be History (His-STORY).

Note: Would address all concerns to, Diary – Courtesy Sidin Vadukut for giving such a dumb character who would hear all my accusations, that would make no sense to anyone else. 

It has been very long time since I was thinking of writing what actually the social media means to many of us.

•  How deep it has gone into our lives
•  How deep the social media knows about life and our relations
• How it can make us happy, sad and even FURIOUS with its updates that would be coming out from the blues.

Well that was the phases or the things that would happen every time when one logs into facebook. Yeah, according to me, only facebook has given me all these flavors in one plate.

Before delving more into the facebook gyans, let me tell you Diary, how Twitter showed me its real power to spread news in seconds. Anand Mahindra once tweeted “When I was in Prague, I came to know about the fire that broke out in one of my factories in India through twitter much before my executives could ring me up and tell”. Just a tweet and this changed all my mediocre impressions of twitter in me.

Now back to our melting pot, FB. Diary, I always feel like posting a lot of Random thoughts on my wall. But the problem is these are meant for just a few people. 

Sometimes I may feel like letting one of my old acquaintance (I could not find a descent word and the word should be balanced without a negative or positive signal) know how happy I am now, or how my life has changed after something got over. So this whole bull shit occurs when some weird post comes to our wall that would pull in some old good memories which may seem bitter now. Well to say, the FB engine understands the unity and strains in every relation and happily play with their positions in the alert and chat windows.

Diary, I am happy to be an FB user as it showed me how Chetan Bhagat made some sense in one of his posts for the first time which otherwise would even irritate even the Chairman Emeritus of some IT behemoths. (Hope you guys got the IIT ka faculty spat). Yeah, the post is Move On and then convey a BIG Thank You when someone tears you apart. Yeah it’s true. You have much better things to do in your life. (I still know such post war martyrs serving again)

Okay, I was focused on the last takeaway from FB for long. Now the others actions r feelings always act minions when we consider the last one. But still I would not resist myself from logging into FB after getting connected to the very erratic internet service a developing nation should have (may be it is the bloody Cyberroam @ Symbiosis that is playing spoilsport).

Well, even after praising and cribbing so long to my diary, nothing would change in this social networking word. So use all wisely. Do not throw too much naatak. We may end up with a Goof Up. A microsecond of activity, the reach would be millions. So handle with care. And last but not the least; nothing can be deleted from this WEB. It is some where :D 

  My Diary is dumb :D

Well guys those who have read this by now, this message would have come across your mind as well. Sorry for the plagiarism.

This article was a message for many and a worthless piece for many!! Well that is up to you  :)

PS: I did not forget Pinterest, Instagram, Youtube. But they did not do any harm to me.
PPS: Had to stand inside many shoes and situations to conceive this article.

Living up or down the tune.

Life when considered in a scientific perspective is just waves which have ups and downs. I know that every one of us the crust and trough story of life. So what is new? Yes there is a life in between these, the life of an ambivert.

The ambiverts are supposed to be the most mentally stable people with maximum control over their emotions. He can project his face with any defined emotion to others. The emotions depend on the faces he shows up to. The ambiverts have this special skill set of managing ones emotions wavelength, extend and frequency.

 I specifically used the word “He” above, because a lady can never be an ambivert. They show that they are fine and full of energy, but they lose out somewhere and give us a signal. They have varying emotional attachment at all times. And overnight everything can take a toss. Between no offenses made to my close friends. They are my friends and they do mean it :)

The life of an Ambivert would have many phases that are listed below. The rate at which these phases pass by cycle again is unpredictable. Even being an Ambivert by myself, I do not have a clue. But on the whole grip is with me.

• Social Extension
• Solitude 
• Social Exclusion

The social extension phase will see all sorts of socializing with all generations that will make out an extraordinary character out from him filled with compassion and dedication. The more you delve into the mind of the person, the more you feel that this guy will stand for you anytime anywhere. But not the bloody same when someone is an extrovert. He is watchful of his peers around and will change the color with accordance. The Ambivert though senses the hostile situation around would lurch in more and try to save the situation. This is what anyone who relies on anyone would like to see. Basically, the ambiverts are ready to make their fingers wet.  

Ambiverts love solitude. They like to work out a lot of their unfulfilled needs when they are all alone. The behaviors that are observed mostly in them are listed down.

• Loves an evening stroll all alone
• Will be spiritually sound ( Will utilize sometime for his satellite communication with GOD)
• Like to travel alone
• Loves to take out the car out in the rain for a drive J (That is a typical me)
• A coffee at CCD or Barista
• And many more crazy things are left

The solitude makes ponder a lot about his current relations and take corrective actions for the strained ones. The strained relations would always be a scar in the mind. Time and tested ways of making over would prove of no use.

The ambiverts are known to find happiness in really small things. A friendly gesture from someone can even make a day for him. So imagine what it would be when it is up to friends.

The social exclusion would just happen in a matter of seconds. The emotional stability is sure to be lost for a very small time. But when back in stature, he would be Better, Stronger, Sharper and Positive (Courtesy: Horlicks; Amended according to my wish). The phase just gift you the power to come back to the positive mindset.

Thus an ambiverts mind shuttles between an extrovert and a solitude lover.  Thus we live up or down the tune of the life wave.

PS: Mark my words:

• The ambivert is not a Part Animal, but he can be one for the need
• The ambivert can sustain conversation with strangers for long but it is difficult to start off (Else it is obvious, he is an extrovert)
• More to be appended in the comments below when I observe of this Creature called AMBIVERT.

rendition of that feeling

Sometimes it is the music!
Sometimes it is the rain!
Sometimes it is the night!
Sometimes it is the nature!
Sometimes it is the space!
Sometimes it is the solitude!
Sometimes it is the pain of moving away!
Sometimes it is the pain given by the ones!
Sometimes it is the pain of a long wait!
And what all results is,
A sinking feeling,
when you look back and think,
what you have lost and gained!

Seasons - Semesters :)

The time not so old,
But moving faster.
A year used to be 4,
Now 4 used to be 1.

On shift 1,
Braved a new profile;

With shift 2,
Strong enough to stand up,
With building blocks of effectiveness;

On shift 3,
Provoked the strength,
Shouldered responsibilities,
Bid farewell to THE SHIFT 4’s,
Along came self realization on relations;

With shift 4,
Points turned,
Hopes came real,
Made de Elixir of my life-my usp!!
With insane thoughts of the future
With mints in hand-
And craving for the next shift!!
Shift 4 ends for Shift 5;
Shift 5 rings for de next season!!
For a bright clear HIGHWAY!!
SHIFT SHIFT SHIFT!!

PS: The creator is still emotionally sound 

the madness of an annoying GL :)

Rings of Pop Up,
Austerity evolved,
Magic of Lingos,
Never away from heaven, But-
Abeyance of a breeze.
With briks of YahU:
bonds of bharthi.
ALL in vain,
When the bell rings:
Shrinking to eyes,
A LOOK LOCK.;)

PS: Desperate of somethin
PPS: Happy of somethin
APPS: Thankful 2 kriz pen and de holy cows paper!!!

The impalpable affection!!

When as a vagrant soul,
Came late-but early,
Dunno wot it is-but knows where it is,
A smile a day,
A moment to cherish;
in de deep hearts:
Rendered de drama,
amazing duh eyes,
misting de prejudice,
nesting de dreams,and
arouse duh emotions;
Long wait but a short LONG;
Let that fall on me!!!!! :))

A Sojourn in Life

Born alive,
Thou grew with lot;
A pebble on the way,
Stumbling affections;
Flood came dashing-
Taking the pebble away;
Tears of parting,
Traces of Missing;
Walking alone over the mundane sea;
A ciao with a peck on the cheek!!!!!